Wedding Tradition

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1. Asking by the male side will give the elder relative who is purely female as an elder to approach to ask for the female parents.

 

2. Betrothal. When the engagement is due, the male party will arrange for the owner to lead the Khan Mak procession to the woman's house. without the man who will be the bridegroom.

 

3. Wedding ceremonies are generally held after the engagement and not more than 2 weeks, on auspicious occasions 4-5 PM on any day.

 

Muslim wedding ceremonies are not commonly performed during the Hajj.

 

Importance for the relationship of humanity which the principles will not escape or avoid reality Therefore, it can be regarded as the middle way that makes human beings perfect in being a noble person or animal.

 

1. Asking for a request In the past, asking for a male partner was given to an adult relative who was purely female. go to ask the female parents When the woman's parents agree, the engagement date will be set. The female parent's agreement will not ask for their daughter's opinion at all. But at present, the person who goes to ask for the return of the mother or the elder relative of the man must go to the elder of the woman.

 

Along with having souvenirs for women, it can be snacks or fruits. When he arrived, he said that he had some business to consult with. Then ask if the woman who wants to go to ask for a mate or not. If the woman says she doesn't have it, she'll tell her who she wants to ask. The woman would not say yes at that time. and will not answer details But will ask for about 7 days to consult between relatives. During that time, the woman may send a respected person to tell the man in case of agreement. If you don't agree, you will be silent and let it be known. When the woman agrees, the man agrees on the wedding date, dowry, betrothal and mahar.

 

2. Engagement in the past when the engagement date The men will arrange the ashes of the Khan Mak procession to the woman's house. The auspicious occasion of the Khan Mak parade takes place in the evening, around 4-5 o'clock in the evening. "Khan Mak" consists of 3 phans, namely Phan Mak Plu, Phan Mak Phan, and Phan Khanom, but some people who are wealthy may add more Khanom Phan. Phan Mak Plu will have dowry money under the Phan Mak Plu.

 

This amount is called lapisike or rongplu money. The pan consists of Kanom Ko (Tupon Putu), puffed rice and sugar cubes. (Tupong Halu, Chimae), etc. All of the aforementioned bowls are covered with beautiful colored cloth. When the procession reached the house, the women welcomed them. The old man will say, "Today (name of the bridegroom) has been engaged. (Bride's name)" when the woman's boss

 

Received the engagement The old man will immediately ask, "How much money is that", which the woman's owner must answer, then it is a consultation about the date of the wedding, the date of the party and the feast. and before the man returns, the woman will bring the male sarong (Ga Heng Sa Ka) or male flower cloth (Kaheng Bate Rue Pa) one of them put the betel nut put on the engagement. As for the yellow glutinous rice and dessert pans, they will receive snacks from the women and put them back.

 

There are two types of betrothal: betrothal before the Nikah ceremony (religious marriage) or betrothal after the Nikah ceremony. This is a good result and has different restrictions. That is to say, if the bridegroom is engaged before the wedding, the bridegroom can't be right. As for the engagement after the Nikah ceremony The groom can correct the bride. Therefore, the groom can wear the betrothal gift to the bride and can arrange a ceremony to sit on the throne for the relatives of both parties to congratulate them with honor. Khan Mak is arranged similarly to the past.

 

3. Wedding ceremonies In the past, wedding ceremonies were generally held no later than 2 weeks after the engagement, with 4-5 auspicious days. one day in the evening The groom's side will bring the betel nut to the bride's house. This procession consists of the groom. groomsman and about 5-6 adult relatives. Going this time, there is nothing to bring. besides money (It must be an odd number) which is placed in a small brass bowl wrapped in a handkerchief for the groom to carry. And good varieties of bananas, such as bananas, only 2-3 combs. On that day, the bride's house prepared a welcome by inviting the imam to preside over the wedding ceremony. with a full neck and another virtuous person

 

To witness The person who holds such virtues may be the village headman, the village headman, or any other person. The important thing is that the person must be accepted and respected as being honest. When Hua Khan Mak arrived at the bride's house The bride was welcomed. On this occasion, the groom has to deliver a bundle of money to the Imam's table. so that the Imam's table can count them correctly and completely and keep the money in check. Then there was a meal together. For the bride to be kept in the room or in the kitchen only. After the feast was over, the groom sat cross-legged in front of the Imam's table.

 

On this occasion, the father of the groom will ask the bride if she agrees or not. In this Q&A, there will be witnesses nearby. If the woman does not agree, she will give her elder relatives who can plead and persuade the young woman to agree to the ceremony. After agreeing to the two witnesses, he acknowledged and proceeded to the next step. The next step is taken by the father or guardian. (must be male) of the bride "Vogel" and the Imam's table The father must arrange the marriage for his daughter, but when the father has no knowledge Understanding of the ritual is to be delegated to others. which has knowledge, understanding and practice instead.

 

Then there will be a tour or reading of the religious ordinances related to marriage called. "Baja Kut Buah which is recited by Tho Tho or Imam table, ending from Then the Imam reached his hand and touched the fingertips of the groom's finger. Just one finger and begin the wedding ceremony by verbally. The Imam's table would say as follows: "Ya Abdullah Akunikah Agandigao Bar Vogelwo Liba Pao Nyo Agandagu Du Ngan Halim. It's Timuhamad Iziqah Wenzabahayao sarato takopu and Tiyokoh Tuna" and the groom must respond according to "Aku Tremo Nikah Ngan Isikah Websabaya Tirsumo Etu", meaning marriage has been accepted according to the amount of the head. such a bowl

 

According to Islamic law, marriage means Men and women have bonded together to live together as husband and wife. according to the Nikah ceremony The Arabic word for marriage is called "Nika", meaning conducting a wedding ceremony under the rules And the rules of Islam or the word Nikah is the relationship between a man and woman. to be husband and wife.

 

By the marriage ceremony according to the principles of Islam according to the provisions of Islam the word marriage in islam therefore called Nikah which a man Will marry at most women at the same time, at most 4 people, meaning that a man can have a wife at the same time At most 4 people, but there is a regulation that the man must be nurtured. can give justice to all wives If there is no talent, then only one person.